I dont know if its just bad luck but once in a blue moon i will meet a girl that i like just randomly either on a training course or at a previous job or whatever but they always have a boyfriend.Just recently a few weeks ago i got turned down because she has a boyfriend,its the first girl ive asked out in months.I keep thinking ive found a girl then i get my hopes up then i face the bad news,it sucks because they give the impression that they are interested.Im not into online dating or anything like that because the girls on there have problems and i think they just like the attention.The usual scenario is going out on saturdays with my friends around the bars and clubs but its still hard to meet girls ive never had a 1 night stand but i have mett a few girlfriend in the past this way but it was years ago but as ive got older im only 27 by the way its harder to meet girls the same age,my 2 bestmates have never had girlfriends the same age as them either,both of thier girlfriends are 35 and 36 and they are 27 and 28.Im finding it difficult to meet single girls no matter where i go these days.Any help on the subject would be appreciated,im the owner of a lonely heart.
Im not ugly and i do make an effort to look good when i go out so i dont knowif its just a crappy stage in my life or what
Bradley g that was funny man but thats a bloody good idea mate!
Supermarket!
Act like you work there 
“hi can i help?”
“Do you work here?”
“No not really, but i got your attention (give a smile). Cooking for one?”
“Yeh i am.”
“Oh right, fancy some company”
Bingooo!
Good luck
February 28th, 2009 at 5:30 am
Instead of bars and clubs, try a church singles group.
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February 28th, 2009 at 6:09 am
Try some singles parties, like lock & key (rather than speed dating which I think is a bit of a waste of time). They’re great fun even if you don’t meet someone and you can go as a group. Lots of people do. I used to go to events by the a company called Speed Dater: http://www.speeddater.co.uk
(only stopped because I’m not single anymore)
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February 28th, 2009 at 6:50 am
Supermarket!
Act like you work there
“hi can i help?”
“Do you work here?”
“No not really, but i got your attention (give a smile). Cooking for one?”
“Yeh i am.”
“Oh right, fancy some company”
Bingooo!
Good luck
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February 28th, 2009 at 6:57 am
I hear ya man, Im in the same boat as you. One of the biggest problems with this situation is the age we are at, all the gals the same age are married; thats why we usually find gals that are older and are already divorced. Im trying a new tactic, Im getting involved in new activities as to maybe meet new people (men & women) instead of trying the same old bar scene. My thoughts are by meeting new people in general, I will have better chances at finding a gal through new friends or through these activities. Maybe you can give this a try?
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February 28th, 2009 at 7:11 am
mall
parties
park..
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February 28th, 2009 at 7:41 am
tough break buddy…i feel ya…i’m in the same boat…i’m 22, i only had one gf before, and she was the love of my life…parents made break up w/ her bc she didn’t go to college…its been over half a yr since that happened, and it still bothers me to the present day…
but nowadays i’m starting to try to meet other girls…i meet a bunch, and they show interest in me, but most of em just end up being huge flirts…it sucks…i genuinely hate it…i’d rather have that one girl to love and cherish rather than freakin’ goin out and meeting a bunch of flirts who have no interest in me u know??
but to answer ur question…u should go for girls younger…try college girls…if u have any friends that are grad students (u seem like u might be at an age for that), ask em to “show you around” if u know what i mean…i tend to meet girls that way nowadays…not the best idea for me since i went to a college that’s 3/4 male lol…
i know u said u hate online dating, but u could try out myspace or some pic rating site…those work decently…its not ur standard online dating since most of the girls there just wanna know how guys think they look, or just wanna talk…if there’s any that’s single, its easy to ask…or if its myspace, its gonna be written on their page…so that’s not a bad idea…
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February 28th, 2009 at 8:10 am
i wouldn’t give online dating up toooo quickly.
while, i’m not for the whole online dating scene, there’s 1 or 2 ok ones that have actually had a lot of results.
Try Match.com. Seriously. It’ll give you girls by your area that you could potentially, realistically meet.
If you still really, really don’t wanna even try that, I’d avoid the bar scene. You typically don’t fall into long-lasting relationships on that route. As weird as it sounds, look at the grocery store ( check for the left hand tho!). And you can always use “Um, I was wondering if you could help me out. Having guy genes, I’m not sure about what kind of fruit/ vegetables I should be looking for…Any advice?” or something like that. lol. You could also try mingling more if a friend has a party…ask around if you’re not afraid of blind dates-lol…take a class on something that interests you ( you’ll learn, and possibly meet someone that has the same interests as you)…parks….um…
I guess, generally, just put yourself out there more. Don’t be afraid to talk to girls more.
Hope this helped.
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February 28th, 2009 at 8:35 am
in a convent most nuns are single good luck
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February 28th, 2009 at 9:10 am
Try going out to social events more and just let yourself go, girls like it more when you act like yourself and quite open.
If you don’t have much confidence and would prefer not to go out, try match.com!!!!
Best of luck!
Leigh
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