well does anyone know of a place or are they just everywhere. im also kinda shy when meeting new people so any pointers on how to start a conversation would be nice too!
My dear friend, you sound like a nice guy. Bars and clubs are hard places to meet people - they deserve to be called "meat markets" because everyone is basing their interest on looks and not personality. You don't even have to be good-looking to get attention, but just look interesting and outgoing. Not an easy scene, and those hook-ups are almost always just superficial.
My best advice for meeting nice, single girls is to go to church (or temple, or whatever). There are lots and lots of smart, principled, and fun girls there just waiting for a decent young man to sweep them off their feet - and not a lot of single guys there to choose from. The odds are in your favor, and you already know you have something in common (your religion!).
Good luck!
April 11th, 2009 at 1:35 pm
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April 11th, 2009 at 1:58 pm
My dear friend, you sound like a nice guy. Bars and clubs are hard places to meet people - they deserve to be called "meat markets" because everyone is basing their interest on looks and not personality. You don't even have to be good-looking to get attention, but just look interesting and outgoing. Not an easy scene, and those hook-ups are almost always just superficial.
My best advice for meeting nice, single girls is to go to church (or temple, or whatever). There are lots and lots of smart, principled, and fun girls there just waiting for a decent young man to sweep them off their feet - and not a lot of single guys there to choose from. The odds are in your favor, and you already know you have something in common (your religion!).
Good luck!
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