meet. He insisted that i come over right after work on friday and that i could shower and change at his place. he offerd to buy the pizza and I offered to buy the beer. He wanted me to spend the night and mind you, we just met and we agreed to massage each other. Well, his massage was the kind that gets women all hot and bothered to the point where he tells me that he does not have intercourse on the first date, but we did everything else you could think of but a massage. A day later he tells me that I should put my pic back on the personals and find someone who is right for me but that we could remain friends and email each other and for me to speak when in passing. What did i do wrong?
Be glad that’s all that happened. He gets off on the whole scene you just described - luring someone to his place and getting them to do whatever he wanted. It’s clear that this would have gone anywhere he wanted. You showed no restraint or respect for yourself. He loves the chase, but when it’s over, it’s over. The chase was over with you and he has moved on to his next prey.
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February 28th, 2010 at 11:59 pm
guys are dogs
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March 1st, 2010 at 12:20 am
Be glad that’s all that happened. He gets off on the whole scene you just described - luring someone to his place and getting them to do whatever he wanted. It’s clear that this would have gone anywhere he wanted. You showed no restraint or respect for yourself. He loves the chase, but when it’s over, it’s over. The chase was over with you and he has moved on to his next prey.
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March 1st, 2010 at 12:56 am
O.K. Well all I can say is that you are really brave. I know that I couldn’t go to a strange man’s house that i had never met, showered and changed, and then did what ever you did with him. I too met someone on Yahoo personals and made d*mn sure to meet him in a public place. You can never be to careful when it comes to those kind of things. It sounds like he was just wanting some type of hook-up and once he got it, was done. Just make sure that you aren’t doing something now that you might regret in the future.
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March 1st, 2010 at 1:21 am
You should have met in a public place.
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