I wanted to add to my last question of fiance wanting to be a massage therapist. She wants to be a personal massage therapist, and do private massages at peoples homes. In the past when she has had temptation with another guy it happened. She assures me that things are different with me. But I just cant get it out of my head. I hate the thought of her rubbing up another guy.
Just because she is massaging someone does not mean that she will cheat on you. Tell her how uncomfortable that makes you, the fact that she will be massaging other guys. Is it really the massaging or is it the fact that she would be doing it in peoples homes. Would it make a difference if she was in an office? I don't think the issue is with her massaging people, I think that you have trust issues and that also needs to be addressed before the two of you get married.
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April 20th, 2009 at 2:57 am
If she falls into temptation with other guys, why are you marrying someone you can't trust.
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April 20th, 2009 at 3:46 am
She'll be rubbing up many guys. For money. If you can't deal with it, break up and find someone else.
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April 20th, 2009 at 4:36 am
Just because she is massaging someone does not mean that she will cheat on you. Tell her how uncomfortable that makes you, the fact that she will be massaging other guys. Is it really the massaging or is it the fact that she would be doing it in peoples homes. Would it make a difference if she was in an office? I don't think the issue is with her massaging people, I think that you have trust issues and that also needs to be addressed before the two of you get married.
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April 20th, 2009 at 5:24 am
if you don't trust her then you shouldn't be with her, she is doing her job for money and it's still the same job regardless of whether she is in a place of business or someones home it is still a profession…..
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April 20th, 2009 at 5:32 am
when we marry somebody it helps us stabilize our hormones. and when we have stable hormones we are healthy cause our immunization are good. but when having unpleasant taught towards somebody who you want to be your life partner will only destabilize your hormones. so think about it. what kind of marriage are you looking for?
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Massage
http://full-body-massage.50webs.com/